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Nolan loves facts about anything but is especially fond of facts about animals. Last summer he would go on and on for days about Terror Birds. I thought this was a fictional bird for a long time until I finally looked it up after Nolan insisted that it was in fact a real bird. Turns out most of the info that he had been reciting to me for days was actually true. I ended up buying him a book on Terror Birds, however I’m not sure why… he already knew everything that was included in the book. Not only is he interested in these facts, but he remembers them after hearing them once. Today at preschool he learned about Lions and has been telling us all about them since the minute I picked him up. When I broke out my phone to video his facts, he turned in to the host of his own Discovery Channel special.
Nine years ago today, I was one month into experiencing the best gift of my life, the gift of motherhood. I could have never imagined the emotion, the love, the sheer joy and excitement of having a son. I remember being scared, nervous and worried about my abilities but most of all thrilled.
I was so anxious for all of the adventures that I jumped right in, wanting to experience all the fun immediately. I couldn’t wait to have playdates and go to the park. Literally, COULD. NOT. WAIT. so I went on playdates and went to the park (with my one month old!). I’m not talking a stroll around the park in a stroller. Nope. I took my beautiful baby boy in my arms, climbed up the long ladder to the top of the slide and slid down holding a baby who now, I realize, was probably terrified. I watched for his smiles, not experienced enough to realize that the smiles, giggles, and flying down the slides on his own would come soon enough, not knowing that when they would come I would plead for time to slow down.
I anxiously awaited each milestone and adventure not fully realizing that they would come quickly. And now, here I sit combing through the adventures of Ricky’s NINTH year. (and couldn’t resist creating him a short little video of his year!)
What a year it was! (**Disclaimer – Here comes the braggy, proud parent moment, but hey, I’ve got a pretty awesome kid!)
Ricky, this past year you:
Have mastered blowing bubbles! (You’ve had lots of practice with the 100s of gumballs in your machine that you got for Christmas a year ago)
Have learned how to play many board games including Battleship and Ticket to Ride (and typically win!)
Visited Las Vegas and Phoenix for the first times (where you got to swim outside in February!)
Made your First Communion
Had the most RBIs on your All Star baseball team
Placed first again for a 5K in your age group
Have read many, many hard, long chapter books
Have learned how to Kayak
Have learned how to do a front flip off the high dive
Have become a GREAT soccer player (People on the sidelines would constantly comment “Who’s number 44?!?” especially in the game where you scored 5 goals!)
Have learned how to ice skate
Were so brave when starting a new school and have done so well there
Fished in the Green River for the first time and jumped high above Flaming Gorge (one of my favorite pictures – below)
Wore your first scary Halloween costume (no more cute monkeys and lions)
as always, were a helpful and loving big brother
Had a TON of fun!
Today, I’m still anxiously awaiting more fun and exciting adventures, but I just wish they would come more slowly. Nine years have flown by. And while I know I can’t slow time, I also now know that I’d rather slowly take in each precious moment and savor it. No need to rush to the next adventure. Every moment is an adventure in itself.
Ricky, Every moment is a gift with you.
Happy belated 9th birthday. I love you.
When my friend, Kase, asked me to photograph him shaving his head I was honored and a bit nervous. Anytime anyone asks me to photograph their family, their event, their new baby I am always honored and always a bit nervous. However this was more nerve wracking than my typical anxiety of making sure I take beautiful photos for my clients. Kase was shaving his head for the first time at age 37 and he wasn’t just shaving it because of a receding hairline or to have the buzz cut that he wished for as a kid. He was shaving it to uncover scars. Scars that would help in telling his story, a story of a baby born with Cranionsynostosis. Scars that shaped insecurities in his life, yet scars he had never actually seen.
I had always known Kase “was born without soft spots.” I had always known that he had surgery as a two month old baby to correct this. What I didn’t know was the medical terminology nor the seriousness of this condition if left alone. I didn’t know how common this birth defect is and how there are various ways of correcting it. I didn’t know that many times it goes undiagnosed by doctors, even with pleading from parents that know in their gut something is not right. Neither did Kase. But he spent years researching and writing a beautiful book that tells his story and the stories of many other beautiful children born with this birth defect. The families stories are heartbreaking and beautiful, filled with uncertain decisions and fears. I was brought to tears many times throughout the book as I imagined having to hand my own boys over to a surgeon to reshape their tiny skulls and as I thought about what Kase’s parents went through.
So this was not any old photo shoot. This was a photo shoot with an old friend who would finally uncover some answers, some potentially emotional answers that he had waited his whole life to reveal. It was an honor to document. And I was thrilled when one of the images was selected for the cover of the book.
Kase did his first reading and book signing to a crowd of almost 100 people and it was amazing. It was a pleasure to meet some of the families and to celebrate such an wonderful accomplishment.
Huge congratulations, Kase! We are so blessed to have such wonderful friends in you, Mary and Lukas.
Love you all.